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The Good Fellow.

THE GOOD FELLOW .

Wo wonder if "Tho Good Fellow" ever mistrusts his goodness , or realizes IIOAV selfish , how weak , IIOAV unprinci pled , and how bad a felloAV he trul y is . He never regards the consequences of his acts as they relate to others , and especially those of his famil

y or friends . Little fits of generosity toAvards them are supposed to atone for all his misdeeds , while he inflicts upon them the disgraces , inconveniences , and burdens which attend a selfish dissolute life . The invitation of a friend , the taunts of

goodnatured boon companions , the temptation of jolly felloAVship , these are enough to overcome all his scruples , if he has any scruples , and to lead him to ignore all the possible results ' to those who love him best , and AVIIO must care for him in sickness and in all the unhappy phases of his selfish life .

• The Good Fellow is notoriously careless of his family . Any outside friend can lead himAvhithersoeverheAvill—into debauchery , idleness , vagabondage . He can ask a favour , and it is done . He can invite him into disgrace , and he goes . He can direct

him into a job of dirty work , and he straightAvay undertakes it . Ho can tempt him into any indulgence which may suit his vicious Avhims , and , regardless of wile , mother , sister , who may be shortened in their resources so as legitimatelto claim

y his protecting hand , —regardless of honourable father and brother , —he will spend his money , Avaste his time , and make himself _ a subject of constant and painful anxiety , or an unmitigated nuisance to those alone Avho care a straw for him . What

¦ pay does he receive for this shameful sacrifice ? The honour of beinf considered a " Good Fellovr , " Avith a set of men AVIIO would not spend a cent for him if they should see him starving , and who would laugh at his calamities . When ho

dies in a ditch , as he is'most likely to die , they breathe a si gh over the glass they drink , and say , " after all , he Avas a Good Fellow . "

The features of the Good Fellow ' s case Avhich makes it Avell ni gh hopeless , is , that he thinks he is a Good Fellow . He thinks that his pliable disposition , his readiness to

do other good fellows a service , and his jolly Avays atone for all his faults . His love of praise is fed by his companions , and thus his self-complacency is nursed . Quite unaware that his good felloAA'ship is the result of his iveaknes ; quite unaAvare

that his sacrifice of the honour and peace of his family , for the sake of outside praise , is the offspring of the most heartless selfishness ; quite unaware that his disregard of the interests and feelings of those AVIIO are bound to him by the

closest ties of blood , is the demonstration of his utterly unprincipled character ; he carries an unruffled , or a jovial front , while hearts bleed or break around him . " Of all the scamps society knoAvs , the traditional good fellow is the most despicable . A

man AVIIO for the sake of his own selfish delights , or the sake of the praise of careless or unprincipled friends , makes his home a scene of anxietv and torture , and

degrades and disgraces all who are associated with him in home life , is , whether he knows it or not , a brute . If a man cannot be loyal to his home , and to those who love him , then he cannot be loyal to anything

that is good . There is something mean beyond description in any man AAIIO cares more for anything in this Avorld than the honour , the confidence , and love of his family . There is something radically Avrong in such a man , and the quicker , and

the more thoroughly he realizes it , in a humiliation which bends him to the earth in shame and confusion , the better for him . The traditional good fellow is a bad fellow from the croivn of his head to the sole of his foot . He is as Aveak as a bab }' vain as

, a peacock , selfish as a pig , and as unprincipled as a thief , lie has not one redeeming trait upon Avhich a reasonable self-respect can be built and braced .

Give us the bad felloAV , who stands by his personal and famil y honour , Avho sticks to his OAvn , AVIIO does not " treat" his friends Avhile his home is in need of the money he Avastes , and who gives himself no indulgence of the good felloAvshi at the

p expense of duty ! A man Avith whom the approving smile of a Avife , or mother , or sister , does not weigh more than a thousand crazy hravos of boon companions , is just no mail at Ail . —Scrihner ' s American Monthly ,

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Monthly Masonic Summary. Article 1
ANCIENT MASONIC LODGES, NO. IV. Article 2
THE OLD MASONIC POEM. Article 5
THE NEW MORALITY. Article 6
UNDER A MASK. Article 7
THE SEASON. Article 11
MASONIC ARCHAEOLOGY. Article 12
THE SPRIG OF ACACIA. Article 14
UNVEILED. Article 15
DIFFICULTY OF ASCERTAINING THE AGE OF UNDATED OLD MASONIC MSS. Article 17
JAM SATIS EST! Article 22
LET THERE BE LIGHT. Article 22
Untitled Article 23
Our Archaeological Corner. Article 24
THE SURVEY OF PALESTINE. Article 24
HOW HE LOST HER. Article 26
OLD AND NEW LODGES. Article 28
BENEFITS OF ADVERTISING. Article 29
ANCIENT CRAFT MASONRY. Article 29
THE GOOD FELLOW. Article 31
TIRED. Article 32
DISTINCTIONS OF LANGUAGE. Article 32
"BROTHERLY LOVE" WEIGHT, AND HIS TRIAL. Article 33
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The Good Fellow.

THE GOOD FELLOW .

Wo wonder if "Tho Good Fellow" ever mistrusts his goodness , or realizes IIOAV selfish , how weak , IIOAV unprinci pled , and how bad a felloAV he trul y is . He never regards the consequences of his acts as they relate to others , and especially those of his famil

y or friends . Little fits of generosity toAvards them are supposed to atone for all his misdeeds , while he inflicts upon them the disgraces , inconveniences , and burdens which attend a selfish dissolute life . The invitation of a friend , the taunts of

goodnatured boon companions , the temptation of jolly felloAVship , these are enough to overcome all his scruples , if he has any scruples , and to lead him to ignore all the possible results ' to those who love him best , and AVIIO must care for him in sickness and in all the unhappy phases of his selfish life .

• The Good Fellow is notoriously careless of his family . Any outside friend can lead himAvhithersoeverheAvill—into debauchery , idleness , vagabondage . He can ask a favour , and it is done . He can invite him into disgrace , and he goes . He can direct

him into a job of dirty work , and he straightAvay undertakes it . Ho can tempt him into any indulgence which may suit his vicious Avhims , and , regardless of wile , mother , sister , who may be shortened in their resources so as legitimatelto claim

y his protecting hand , —regardless of honourable father and brother , —he will spend his money , Avaste his time , and make himself _ a subject of constant and painful anxiety , or an unmitigated nuisance to those alone Avho care a straw for him . What

¦ pay does he receive for this shameful sacrifice ? The honour of beinf considered a " Good Fellovr , " Avith a set of men AVIIO would not spend a cent for him if they should see him starving , and who would laugh at his calamities . When ho

dies in a ditch , as he is'most likely to die , they breathe a si gh over the glass they drink , and say , " after all , he Avas a Good Fellow . "

The features of the Good Fellow ' s case Avhich makes it Avell ni gh hopeless , is , that he thinks he is a Good Fellow . He thinks that his pliable disposition , his readiness to

do other good fellows a service , and his jolly Avays atone for all his faults . His love of praise is fed by his companions , and thus his self-complacency is nursed . Quite unaware that his good felloAA'ship is the result of his iveaknes ; quite unaAvare

that his sacrifice of the honour and peace of his family , for the sake of outside praise , is the offspring of the most heartless selfishness ; quite unaware that his disregard of the interests and feelings of those AVIIO are bound to him by the

closest ties of blood , is the demonstration of his utterly unprincipled character ; he carries an unruffled , or a jovial front , while hearts bleed or break around him . " Of all the scamps society knoAvs , the traditional good fellow is the most despicable . A

man AVIIO for the sake of his own selfish delights , or the sake of the praise of careless or unprincipled friends , makes his home a scene of anxietv and torture , and

degrades and disgraces all who are associated with him in home life , is , whether he knows it or not , a brute . If a man cannot be loyal to his home , and to those who love him , then he cannot be loyal to anything

that is good . There is something mean beyond description in any man AAIIO cares more for anything in this Avorld than the honour , the confidence , and love of his family . There is something radically Avrong in such a man , and the quicker , and

the more thoroughly he realizes it , in a humiliation which bends him to the earth in shame and confusion , the better for him . The traditional good fellow is a bad fellow from the croivn of his head to the sole of his foot . He is as Aveak as a bab }' vain as

, a peacock , selfish as a pig , and as unprincipled as a thief , lie has not one redeeming trait upon Avhich a reasonable self-respect can be built and braced .

Give us the bad felloAV , who stands by his personal and famil y honour , Avho sticks to his OAvn , AVIIO does not " treat" his friends Avhile his home is in need of the money he Avastes , and who gives himself no indulgence of the good felloAvshi at the

p expense of duty ! A man Avith whom the approving smile of a Avife , or mother , or sister , does not weigh more than a thousand crazy hravos of boon companions , is just no mail at Ail . —Scrihner ' s American Monthly ,

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