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A Little Good Advice.

ness and goodness , and IIOAV amiable and useful our girls can be and are to society , and to their surroundings . Many a village Sunday School owes much of its attractiveness to those Avho in the prime of youth and gracedo not think it

, beneath them to look after that little flock . Manyaldndlydistrictvisitor can , Avith a smiling face and gentle Avoids , find an avenue to hearts cold and careless .

AVhat is really then a happier time for us all , for a family , or a neighbourhood , and for this cold-creamy , shallowfeeling society of ours just IIOAV , than the bright looks , Avarm hearts , tender sympathies , and guileless innocence of

our young Avomen . Old folks are sometimes apt to groAv hard , egotistical , and sneering , selfish and domineering . They have enjoyed life ( or they think they have ) , to its veriest dregs even , and

now that to them existence is Availing , and their powers are weakening , they are notunfrequently someAvhat impatient of the more vivid hopes of life ' s young morn . They seem at times disposed to believe that young people are more

gay , a good deal " faster " ( to use a slang Avord ) , and not so obedient as they Avere ; Avhereas in truth Avhen they themselves Avere young , their seniors made exactly the same complaint of them . It is in

fact the repetition of the old grievance of all passing generations . Avhich , as they fleet and flit from us , hardly care to realize the stubborn fact , that , another getierationyounger and stronger , more hale and more active , is already

treading on their heels . So runs the Avorld , however , away ; and depend upon it , clear old " laudator temporis acti , " the same faults are found by the old people now with their children , as their children will find

some fine clay with their children . I am therefore going to give a little sound advice , and a little bit of my old mind , to some young and charming friends of mine . Adopt , in the first place , the good old saying , "hurry no man ' s cattle ; " and

don t , m the second place , expedite too rashly that hour Avhich casts the little bark on the untried ocean of matrimony , and Avhich too often exchanges the liberty of life for the slavery of society , and the free charter of a social

or family circle for the colder bondage of the Avorld . More ill-assorted unions , and more ill-matched couples , and more unhappy after-lives , arise out of precipitate and ill-considered marriagesin which old

, folks and young folks are equally blameable than , perhaps , socially from any other given cause . George meets Dinorah at an evening party . He is delighted Avith her , she knoAvs

something about him . Deep are the sympathy of music , the charm of conversation , and the language of the eyes . George is delighted , Dinorah is confiding ; Dinorah gets animated , and

George goes home " spooney . " They meet next day ; and the next day , and the next clay , they see each other in the park or at a ball . He soon betrays to his observant military friend " the Colonel" that he

, is done for , AVIIO repeats it at his club , Avith decided emphasis . At last George plucks up courage , confronts the stem " paler , " is remitted to the " Damosel , " and rises from his knees , happy and enjoyed .

" Oh fortunati minium ! " Then come friendly congratulations , Avedding presents , the awful day , a " plain gold ring , the parson , and St . George ' s ;" " the marriage breakfast , the speeches , the old shoes , the travelling carriage , the honeymoon .

It probably will not be the lot of this happy couple , as once happened to a joyous pair I saw aligh t from the nuptial carriage at the AVaterlooIiailway Station . The bridegroom , a thin young man of 24 Avith a somewhat " beery" look

, about him , jumped out , and " pulled out , " literally , not handed out , a stout , good natured young Avoman of some years his senior . He was full of haste and iniperiousness , and shewed little

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Monthly Masonic Summary. Article 1
THE AGE OF ANCIENT MASONIC MANUSCRIPTS. Article 2
THE NEW MORALITY. Article 4
CELIA'S MOTH. Article 5
A DREAM OF FAIR FACES. Article 11
Untitled Article 11
CHARLES DICKENS—A LECTURE. Article 12
COURAGE. Article 17
THE CHANGE OF YEARS. Article 18
A LITTLE COMEDY Article 19
ORATION BY M.W. GRAND MASTER VAN SLYCK, OF RHODE ISLAND. Article 20
Our Archaeological Corner. Article 23
A LITTLE GOOD ADVICE. Article 24
LOIS' STRATEGY. Article 27
PEOPLE WILL TALK. Article 29
WHAT IS THE GOOD OF FREE MASONRY? Article 30
"THE NIGHTINGALE." Article 32
IN MEMORIAM. Article 32
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A Little Good Advice.

ness and goodness , and IIOAV amiable and useful our girls can be and are to society , and to their surroundings . Many a village Sunday School owes much of its attractiveness to those Avho in the prime of youth and gracedo not think it

, beneath them to look after that little flock . Manyaldndlydistrictvisitor can , Avith a smiling face and gentle Avoids , find an avenue to hearts cold and careless .

AVhat is really then a happier time for us all , for a family , or a neighbourhood , and for this cold-creamy , shallowfeeling society of ours just IIOAV , than the bright looks , Avarm hearts , tender sympathies , and guileless innocence of

our young Avomen . Old folks are sometimes apt to groAv hard , egotistical , and sneering , selfish and domineering . They have enjoyed life ( or they think they have ) , to its veriest dregs even , and

now that to them existence is Availing , and their powers are weakening , they are notunfrequently someAvhat impatient of the more vivid hopes of life ' s young morn . They seem at times disposed to believe that young people are more

gay , a good deal " faster " ( to use a slang Avord ) , and not so obedient as they Avere ; Avhereas in truth Avhen they themselves Avere young , their seniors made exactly the same complaint of them . It is in

fact the repetition of the old grievance of all passing generations . Avhich , as they fleet and flit from us , hardly care to realize the stubborn fact , that , another getierationyounger and stronger , more hale and more active , is already

treading on their heels . So runs the Avorld , however , away ; and depend upon it , clear old " laudator temporis acti , " the same faults are found by the old people now with their children , as their children will find

some fine clay with their children . I am therefore going to give a little sound advice , and a little bit of my old mind , to some young and charming friends of mine . Adopt , in the first place , the good old saying , "hurry no man ' s cattle ; " and

don t , m the second place , expedite too rashly that hour Avhich casts the little bark on the untried ocean of matrimony , and Avhich too often exchanges the liberty of life for the slavery of society , and the free charter of a social

or family circle for the colder bondage of the Avorld . More ill-assorted unions , and more ill-matched couples , and more unhappy after-lives , arise out of precipitate and ill-considered marriagesin which old

, folks and young folks are equally blameable than , perhaps , socially from any other given cause . George meets Dinorah at an evening party . He is delighted Avith her , she knoAvs

something about him . Deep are the sympathy of music , the charm of conversation , and the language of the eyes . George is delighted , Dinorah is confiding ; Dinorah gets animated , and

George goes home " spooney . " They meet next day ; and the next day , and the next clay , they see each other in the park or at a ball . He soon betrays to his observant military friend " the Colonel" that he

, is done for , AVIIO repeats it at his club , Avith decided emphasis . At last George plucks up courage , confronts the stem " paler , " is remitted to the " Damosel , " and rises from his knees , happy and enjoyed .

" Oh fortunati minium ! " Then come friendly congratulations , Avedding presents , the awful day , a " plain gold ring , the parson , and St . George ' s ;" " the marriage breakfast , the speeches , the old shoes , the travelling carriage , the honeymoon .

It probably will not be the lot of this happy couple , as once happened to a joyous pair I saw aligh t from the nuptial carriage at the AVaterlooIiailway Station . The bridegroom , a thin young man of 24 Avith a somewhat " beery" look

, about him , jumped out , and " pulled out , " literally , not handed out , a stout , good natured young Avoman of some years his senior . He was full of haste and iniperiousness , and shewed little

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