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Filial Duty, Of Parents' Claims And Children's Liabilities.

mind , and the ultimate developement of the physical and mental faculties of their offspring , with what solicitude do they regard their undertakings , success in which calls forth emotions of- joy inexpressible , and the child , the youth , the man , who in his every day life evinces an appreciation

of such disinterested devotion to , and solicitude for , his welfare is not only a blessing to his parents , but experiences such composure in mind , such a calm conscience , such comfort in himself as is impossible to those whose steps diverge from that course which filial duty , affection , and

scriptural injunction point , out to us as the legitimate one . Here Epictetus ' s advice to children may not be out of place .

"Let your respects and services agree , And be proportioned to the quality Of those to whom those services you pay . Is he your father ? Know you must obey And cherish him , considering all his care For you , when weak and helpless yet you were , And bear with him all things , knowing how

Nature obliged him to be kind to you : All this to gratitude is due . He heard your peevish brawling shout t' allay Tour childish wrath , and wip'd your tears away . And can't you bear an angry word or blow ]? rom one so indulgent , One that loved you so , Twice to have given you life in that he fed , In that with so much tenderness he bred Your younger years P "

In our earlier years pains are taken to instrue into our minds the divine command— "Honour thy Father and thy Mother , " but the term i honour' is generally construed as implying ¦ obedience only , and it is by no means rare that when we attain to what is commonly designated

• mature age , the injunction is considered as no longer applying to us , we cast aside and repudiate the restraint of parental authority , in the belief that we are no longer answerable to them . Prosperity is then sometimes a creature of ingratitude , the love , the care , the anxiety and sacrifice , experienced for our sakes are oblivionised , their

age , their infirmities , their poverty , is not heeded , and instances are on record in which their death has been attributable to privation . In wretchedness , frozen , and destitute of bread , they have laid down their weary aching limbs and heart to rise no more , till they ascend to that height , that

heavenly home , " where the Avicked cease from troubling , where the weary are at rest ; " whilst the avaricious , selfish , unfeeling child , revelled in luxury , possessed sufficient means to have enabled him to have rescued them from such a sad and cruel fate . What a contrast is this to the course Avhich the

goodparentpursuestowardshis offspring ; whent ' he cold hand of adversity oppresses us , our thoughts immediately wend homewards . It is to our parents we look for relief ; like the Prodigal Son , we are glad to have recourse to them for succour in the hour of need ; how glad are we to enlist their sympathy and to be able to claim their assistance as

we pour into their ear our tale of woe and grief ; and who is . there so ready to dispel the clouds of sorrow which may have thickened around us . Unlike those who usurp the name of friend , whose friendly offices cease at the approach of distress , with open arms they meet the poverty-stricken

world-sick outcast child , imprinting upon him the kiss of tenderness as tears of sympathy chase each other down his cheek , and with hearty good Avill they cheer the drooping spirits of the wanderer as they utter a Avelcome to their common home once

more . There are many passages in Scripture , many noble examples in the Sacred Volume , and profane history , which may be adduced as illustrative of the broad signification of the Fifth Commandment ; besides , the opinion of learned men strengthens the conviction that more than mere obedience is comprehended in it . The sacred obligation also includes solicitude for tbe necessities and comfort of

those to whom Ave owe our birth , to those who iu helpless infancy tended , and affectionately watched over us and trained our young minds in the paths of rectitude and virtue , a desire at all times to render them joyous and happy , anticipating their wants and relieving them as far as circumstances

admits , the good child should make every possible effort to succour their weakness , soothe their affliction , aud relieve the distresses of his parents ; he should boldly repel the slanderer of their good name , his chief aim should be to use every lawful means in his power to confer happiness on them ,

and to promote their interests , spiritually as well as temporarily ; in fine , he should do unto them as he would expect his children to do unto him .

" Here lies the friend most lov'd , the sou most dear , Who ne ' er knew joy but friendship must divide , Nor gave a father grief but when he died . " Pope thus commends the Honourable Simon Harcourt , whose good qualities the world at large Avould do well to emulate .

Pope , himself , Avas a brilliant pattern of a good son . His biographer observes of him , " The filial piety of Pope was in the highest degree amiable and exemplary , his parents had the happiness of living till he was at the summit of political reputationtill he was at easein his fortune , and

, , without a rival in his fame , and found no diminution of his respect and tenderness . Whatever Avas his pride , to them he was obedient ; and whatever was his irritability , to them he was gentle . Life has amongst its soothing and quiet comforts few things better to give than such a son . "

This great poet affords a pleasing contrast to many sons and daughters , whose amiability and politeness are accorded to strangers , whilst petulance and ill-manners are reserved for home and those for whom parental affection claims a better requital—see the ball-room beau aud belle , how happy and sweet tempered they appear as they tread the weary dance , emulating their vis a >

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GRAND LODGE OF SCOTLAND. Article 1
WHAT MASONS CANNOT DO IN ENGLAND. Article 1
NOTES ON AMERICAN FREEMASONRY. Article 2
FILIAL DUTY, OF PARENTS' CLAIMS AND CHILDREN'S LIABILITIES. Article 4
MASONIC SAYINGS AND DOINGS ABROAD. Article 7
MASONIC JOTTINGS.—No. 47. Article 10
MASONIC NOTES AND QUERIES. Article 10
Untitled Article 11
Untitled Article 11
MASONIC MEMS. Article 11
Craft Masonry. Article 12
METROPOLITAN. Article 14
PROVINCIAL. Article 15
MARK MASONRY. Article 15
NEW SOUTH WALES. Article 16
SCOTLAND. Article 16
LAYING THE FOUNDATION-STONE OF A NEW HALL FOR LODGE JOURNEYMEN, EDINBURGH. Article 17
Obituary. Article 19
REVIEWS. Article 19
"THE RECTANGULAR REVIEW," AND THE MASONIC CHARITIES. Article 19
Poetry. Article 20
LIST OF LODGE MEETINGS &c., FOR WEEK ENDING DECEMBER 17TH , 1870. Article 20
METROPOLITAN LODGES AND CHAPTERS OF INSTRUCTION. Article 20
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Filial Duty, Of Parents' Claims And Children's Liabilities.

mind , and the ultimate developement of the physical and mental faculties of their offspring , with what solicitude do they regard their undertakings , success in which calls forth emotions of- joy inexpressible , and the child , the youth , the man , who in his every day life evinces an appreciation

of such disinterested devotion to , and solicitude for , his welfare is not only a blessing to his parents , but experiences such composure in mind , such a calm conscience , such comfort in himself as is impossible to those whose steps diverge from that course which filial duty , affection , and

scriptural injunction point , out to us as the legitimate one . Here Epictetus ' s advice to children may not be out of place .

"Let your respects and services agree , And be proportioned to the quality Of those to whom those services you pay . Is he your father ? Know you must obey And cherish him , considering all his care For you , when weak and helpless yet you were , And bear with him all things , knowing how

Nature obliged him to be kind to you : All this to gratitude is due . He heard your peevish brawling shout t' allay Tour childish wrath , and wip'd your tears away . And can't you bear an angry word or blow ]? rom one so indulgent , One that loved you so , Twice to have given you life in that he fed , In that with so much tenderness he bred Your younger years P "

In our earlier years pains are taken to instrue into our minds the divine command— "Honour thy Father and thy Mother , " but the term i honour' is generally construed as implying ¦ obedience only , and it is by no means rare that when we attain to what is commonly designated

• mature age , the injunction is considered as no longer applying to us , we cast aside and repudiate the restraint of parental authority , in the belief that we are no longer answerable to them . Prosperity is then sometimes a creature of ingratitude , the love , the care , the anxiety and sacrifice , experienced for our sakes are oblivionised , their

age , their infirmities , their poverty , is not heeded , and instances are on record in which their death has been attributable to privation . In wretchedness , frozen , and destitute of bread , they have laid down their weary aching limbs and heart to rise no more , till they ascend to that height , that

heavenly home , " where the Avicked cease from troubling , where the weary are at rest ; " whilst the avaricious , selfish , unfeeling child , revelled in luxury , possessed sufficient means to have enabled him to have rescued them from such a sad and cruel fate . What a contrast is this to the course Avhich the

goodparentpursuestowardshis offspring ; whent ' he cold hand of adversity oppresses us , our thoughts immediately wend homewards . It is to our parents we look for relief ; like the Prodigal Son , we are glad to have recourse to them for succour in the hour of need ; how glad are we to enlist their sympathy and to be able to claim their assistance as

we pour into their ear our tale of woe and grief ; and who is . there so ready to dispel the clouds of sorrow which may have thickened around us . Unlike those who usurp the name of friend , whose friendly offices cease at the approach of distress , with open arms they meet the poverty-stricken

world-sick outcast child , imprinting upon him the kiss of tenderness as tears of sympathy chase each other down his cheek , and with hearty good Avill they cheer the drooping spirits of the wanderer as they utter a Avelcome to their common home once

more . There are many passages in Scripture , many noble examples in the Sacred Volume , and profane history , which may be adduced as illustrative of the broad signification of the Fifth Commandment ; besides , the opinion of learned men strengthens the conviction that more than mere obedience is comprehended in it . The sacred obligation also includes solicitude for tbe necessities and comfort of

those to whom Ave owe our birth , to those who iu helpless infancy tended , and affectionately watched over us and trained our young minds in the paths of rectitude and virtue , a desire at all times to render them joyous and happy , anticipating their wants and relieving them as far as circumstances

admits , the good child should make every possible effort to succour their weakness , soothe their affliction , aud relieve the distresses of his parents ; he should boldly repel the slanderer of their good name , his chief aim should be to use every lawful means in his power to confer happiness on them ,

and to promote their interests , spiritually as well as temporarily ; in fine , he should do unto them as he would expect his children to do unto him .

" Here lies the friend most lov'd , the sou most dear , Who ne ' er knew joy but friendship must divide , Nor gave a father grief but when he died . " Pope thus commends the Honourable Simon Harcourt , whose good qualities the world at large Avould do well to emulate .

Pope , himself , Avas a brilliant pattern of a good son . His biographer observes of him , " The filial piety of Pope was in the highest degree amiable and exemplary , his parents had the happiness of living till he was at the summit of political reputationtill he was at easein his fortune , and

, , without a rival in his fame , and found no diminution of his respect and tenderness . Whatever Avas his pride , to them he was obedient ; and whatever was his irritability , to them he was gentle . Life has amongst its soothing and quiet comforts few things better to give than such a son . "

This great poet affords a pleasing contrast to many sons and daughters , whose amiability and politeness are accorded to strangers , whilst petulance and ill-manners are reserved for home and those for whom parental affection claims a better requital—see the ball-room beau aud belle , how happy and sweet tempered they appear as they tread the weary dance , emulating their vis a >

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